7 ways to make your boyfriend feel special

If you think that it is only a man’s job to make you feel special, then you are wrong. If your boyfriend or partner is feeling down or sad or upset with you for any reason, you should make him feel better.
Don’t think the traditional way that all these things should be done by a man only. Even without reason, you should make your man feel special and thank him for taking care of your every need and listening to every tantrum. It is one of the best ways to maintain a healthy relationship.

Also, start your day by sending a good morning message to your boyfriend, especially when he is feeling down. Here are some other ways to make him feel special.

Here is the list of thing you can do to make him feel better

1.    Compliment him
When your boyfriend or partner does something special for you or does something which affects you positively, compliment him. It will make him feel special that you have noticed their efforts.
Also, make sure that the efforts are natural and genuine, even if they are only one or two. Don’t give fake compliments, because people can figure that out with ease.

2. Give them attention 
We girls love attention and if our partner forgets to focus on us and give attention to someone else, we get really upset. Well, men won’t say, but they too love it when you give them attention. When you give them your undivided attention, they will feel special and important. Especially, focus your attention on them when you find them feeling down or upset.

3. Take him out for dinner or lunch
Plan a date night and take your boyfriend out for lunch or dinner at his favorite place. Let him order anything he wants or order all his favorite things in the world.
Also, since you planned the date night, don’t be hesitant to pay the bill.

4. Surprise him
Surprise him with a little gift that holds something of value to him. You can also take him out for a little trekking or camping nearby. Plan a game night with him or invite his friends along.
You can even plan a long drive with him with all his favorite music playing in the background; you can chat and enjoy each other’s company.

5. Be affectionate
Be affectionate towards him. Hold his hands in public, introduce him as your boyfriend, and give him lots of hugs. When your purpose is to make him feel special, don’t criticize him for a small mistake.
Also, when having a romantic moment together, don’t bring up past mistakes or fights that are bygones now.

6. Stand up for him
If someone from your friend or family group is criticizing your men for no reason, you need to stand up for him. Support your men and defend him as no one has the right to throw stones at him without any reason.

7. Encourage them to talk
Men don’t talk about their fears or anxieties. That is why when your man is down or feeling sad, you should encourage him to talk and be there for him no matter what.

A relationship will be healthy if both parties work on it, so keep making efforts to make your man feel special.

5 ways to make your girlfriend feel special

If you have a girlfriend, you must make her feel special. Especially, try harder if you feel the charm and attraction between you two have disappeared or reduced. You may find that your partner might be behaving cold or distant, and if that is happening, it can be because of this reason. You are taking her for granted and not treating her the right way. If this is the case, do something nice to make her feel special. If she is happy and loves it, she wanted more attention and care.

Not sure, what else you can do to make her feel special? Well, these tips might help.

1. Send her cute messages/text
When our days start with a beautiful message and end with a loving text, we do feel special, especially if the person who sent it is someone we adore. Text romantic good night messages to your girlfriend, instead of a simple Good Night. It will make her feel special, bring a smile to her face, and make her remember you instantly. Do the same in the morning, you don’t have to do this every day, but once a while, this sounds nice.

2. Look at her lovingly when talking to her
It is a known fact that when we look into the eye of the person we are talking about, it means we are interested in hearing what they are saying. So, the next time you talk to your girlfriend, make sure that you look into her eyes and hold it. Don’t look here and there, but look into her eyes and make sure that when she is talking, you seem interested and proud of her.

3. Show affection to her in public
It is easy to hug your girlfriend or tell her how much you love her in private, but if you really love her, you would have no problem admitting it publically, especially in front of your friends. So, introduce her to other people like your girlfriend or hold her hand while going to malls or to a restaurant or so on. When you show affection to her in public, it shows that you are proud of being with her.

4. Take her out on a romantic date
If you two have been dating each other for long, sometimes the spark and passion can fade. To make sure that it doesn’t, keep taking her out on romantic dates. Or if she plans a date with you, don’t keep canceling her.
You don't have to go to a fancy restaurant to make each other feel special. A romantic candle-light dinner at home where you cook for her (It can even be Maggie, but she will appreciate the effort), and you dance and talk is enough to make her feel special.

5. Give her surprises
You can also give her cute little surprises to make her feel special. Gift her, her favorite flowers or gift her book that she has been meaning to buy for long or something like that.
Don’t ever stop trying, once we get comfortable in a relationship we stop trying. This can cause a problem and it goes for both people involved.